Absolute implies conclusion, the end, no more discussion, complete. Any absolute expression eliminates further creative thought and closes off wiggle room or increases the resistance to change or alteration. What absolute terms show up in your language?
The words you use make up a significant element of the impact you have on others, on what you cause. But in this simple note I specifically want to alert you to the effect they have on you, on the thoughts that follow (or rather, don’t).